The best gay dating app in New York City

Looking for love? Find gay dates & hookups on Lex, the social app for the LGBTQ+ community. Whether you want to flirt, find a long term relationship, poly partner or spicy queer hook-up, Lex is best way for queer, lesbian, non binary, trans, gay and bisexual folx to meet, date and find community in your local neighborhood. Lex is live in all five NYC boroughs: Manhattan, Brooklyn, Queens, the Bronx and Staten Island. If it's queer, it's here!

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"The best gay dating app! So much better than Grindr, Scruff, Okcupid and other gay dating sites. I found great dates with other queer men, as well a fun hookup, a new friend and a went to fun local event in the West Village, New York. It's more than just gay dating, its queer community."

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If you're tired of swiping on dating apps for gay men on dating sites and apps like Tinder, Scruff, Grindr, Okcupid, come try Lex. The social app for LGBTQ+ community. Lex is an inclusive social and dating app for lesbians, non binary, trans, bisexual  and queer  women and folx. Find a first date, love, a long term relationship or spicy hookup.

Make a post with who you are and what you're looking for and meet other queer men and non binary and trans folx who you connect with for queer romance. Hookup and chat with LGBTQ, gay, bisexual and trans folx in the comments or chat in messages. All gender expressions welcome on Lex.

  • Create a profile and introduce yourself to your gay, queer, LGBTQ+ and trans community
  • Create a Dating or Hookup post sharing who you are and what you are looking for
  • Explore profiles and message LGBTQ+ people who match your filters
  • Write a missed connection to find that lost romance
  • Flirt and chat with like minded transgender people and LGBTQ+ folx 1:1 or in a group chat

Find dates and meet local gay guys and queers in your local neighborhood. Lex has you covered for  queer dating near you. Build gay community with queers and meet and chat with other LGBTQ men and non binary people near you. Lex is an inclusive and welcoming community for all  LGBTQ folx.Lex is a queer centered and inclusive space for lesbian,  trans, non binary, LGBTQ, gay and bisexual  women, gay men and folx. Lex is gender inclusive and and we welcome all  gender identities. We have a strict community guidelines policy to keep our LGBTQ community safe. Hookup, express yourself, find love, whatever your gay heart desires.Lex is available in your NYC neighborhood:

📍 The Best Gay, Lesbian, Queer, Bisexual & Trans Dating app in Manhattan, NYC: Upper East Side, Upper West Side, Harlem, Chelsea, Greenwich Village, SoHo, Tribeca, Lower East Side, East Village, Financial District, Chinatown, Battery Park City, Midtown, Gramercy, NoHo.
📍The Best Gay, Lesbian, Queer, Bisexual & Trans Dating app in Brooklyn, NYC: Williamsburg, DUMBO, Park Slope, Brooklyn Heights, Coney Island, Bushwick, Bed-Stuy, Fort Greene, Carroll Gardens, Red Hook, Greenpoint, Sunset Park, Bay Ridge, Crown Heights
📍The Best Gay, Lesbian, Queer, Bisexual & Trans Dating app in Brooklyn, NYC:  Queens: Astoria, Long Island City, Flushing, Forest Hills, Jackson Heights, Rego Park, Corona, Bayside, Kew Gardens, Woodside
📍The Best Gay, Lesbian, Queer, Bisexual & Trans Dating app in The Bronx, NYC: Riverdale, Fordham, Belmont, Kingsbridge, South Bronx, Pelham Bay, Morris Park, Grand Concourse, Wakefield, Throgs Neck
📍The Best Gay, Lesbian, Queer, Bisexual & Trans Dating app in Staten Island, NYC: St. George, Tottenville, Great Kills, New Dorp, Richmondtown, Bay Terrace, Huguenot, West Brighton, South Beach, Mariners Harbor

Lex is the best dating app for gay guys, bisexual non binary and trans folx that have tried them all. We see you swiping on, Scruff, Tinder, Grindr.  If you want a more community focused approach to finding gay love, hookups and romance, try Lex - the best dating app for gay men in the LGBTQ+ community in New York City.

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